Needy People

Needy People:

Needy people have low self-esteem. Often, they are attempting to compensate for the lack of attention experienced in childhood. They will latch on to others to bolster their lack of confidence. They often present as perfectly normal but in certain relationships, such as within families or in a couple, their neediness surfaces and manifests as 'clinginess'.Some guys come to The Art of Charm knowing they’re needy. Other guys need to be told. In fact, I’d say most men who are being needy in a relationship (or in general) don’t know they’re being needy — or how they’re needy, which can be even trickier to spot.

Signs of Needy People:

• They want to be with you all the time
• Needs to be around you in social situations
• Constantly seeking approval
• Always asks what you’re thinking
• They need more from you than you need from them
• He wants to be with you all the time
• He needs your attention
• He dominates your social media.

How to Change Needy Behavior?

If you recognize any of these signs in yourself, then own the behavior and take steps to change it. If you find it impossible to stop checking  your boyfriend’s Facebook feed, then stay away from Facebook for a while. If you are doing any of the things described above, it’s time to analyze why you might be needy in your relationship. You may be suffering from anxiety or depression, so get professional help.

Giving your personal power to another person will always affect you negatively. Instead of being in control of how you feel, you are relying on someone else to ‘give’ you those feelings. If all is going well, then it feels good, but neediness is like a black hole – it sucks in good feelings in ever-increasing quantities until nothing can ever satisfy you. You can never feel whole, or happy. One thing you will find – by acting less needy, you will get more of the attention you desire.

Just Think!!!

On one hand, there are people who live their life lavishly. They are not only enjoying the joy of essentials but also have what they want and desire; a luxurious living providing them an extra comfort. On the other hand, there are people who cannot even afford the basic requirements of living. They do not have shelter to live, food to eat, and clothes to wear.People who have extra are living a comfortable and a posh life. While those who have barely the vitals are fighting each day for life.They fail to meet the basic requirements.

There are people who have much more than they need to live while others have barely enough to survive.Change your perspective. Instead of considering them as a project to help, view them as people to love and respect. Following are the few ways to help the poor and needy people